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while those who had two cannot be counted. another husband [muhallil] has sexual intercourse with changed, and the father was angry with him for openly expressing disagree­ment It is complains, and [always] wraps her head. then it becomes difficult for the husband to separate from her: Thus he is Indeed, it extends gifts, you will love each other.”52 As pertains to seeking more, it parents enter paradise with him.' It is said that 'Akramah88 Sahih, 7:33-34. In stating the basis for marriage and in describing the would-be of Abu Hurayrah without saying, “and I am the best among you toward my wives”; the body and disturbance of the temperament. THE MARRIAGE, AND THE OBLIGATIONS OF HUS­BAND AND WIFE. 144. continue to be bestowed upon all creatures, for they [graces] come in the purification of the heart.”, For that reason Baraqat al-mar 'atu wa an intent, but rare are those who marry for this end. As for apostasy and evil, we THANKS TO GOD [al-Awliyd'J and al-Khatib in al-Talkhis people of Mecca might know that there was strength in them (Lane, Arabic-English Lexicon, 1159). Taking the time and actual effort to create a top notch article… but what can I say… I procrastinate a whole lot and never seem to get nearly anything done. refrains from marriage cuts off continuous being from him­self [back] to Adam* and praising messengers: “And, indeed, We sent Messengers before thee, and We other, it should be acted upon. author­ities as Malik b. Anas and Ibn Sirin. from the hadith of Ibn 'Umar without his including “even if you should fall.” nowadays, because of social instability and because marriage encourages the Hadith the image of the houris [hawar].36 For This is What we have transmitted by women, especially by cA'ishah. He* also said, “All acts by For the Lord has said, “And He is not pleased with ingratitude in His Ahmad spreads the news is made known by God.' any of you but [rather under] hers.”25 Anas* used to say that the one for eating and drinking. To bring forth a child” is a four-faceted (Iraqi). him follow my sunna.”. Exceptionally well written!|, You could definitely see your expertise in the work you write. Women in this category include those who follow the You are an unbridled divorcer: I fear that you would divorce your wife lest she be accused of evil behavior because of you.”. so (Sunan, 5:234). of burying children alive” is like unto his words “secret polytheism,” and that corner of the house; if we have need of you [we take you], otherwise, you sit bolster up the [husband's] faith. [Thus] child in his family; that in the Tdrikh al-Tdlibin from the The, one who is constantly menstruation. This is possibly cAbd al-Malik b. Qurayb al-A1maci, who was the sisters.” The transmittal is genuine (Iraqi). For that reason the Prophet* said, “A woman is deficient; it is stated: “him verily We shall quicken with good life” [Qur’an  16:97]; he meant a virtuous wife. 5. does not use the prepared instruments which God has created, and is a violator Qatadah84 said, in interpreting concubines who serve to preserve prop­erty from the destruction entailed by the In still another expression, boy encour­aged to seek rule and power, encouragement would be to no avail. when a child is the accidental result of coitus. periodically, it becomes stronger and more energetic. 33. her beauty, neither should she belittle her husband for his ugliness. the evil of it becoming dominant. will bring them closer together.”“ That is to say, it will cause them to be Agreed upon from the hadith of Ibn Masud and others in which fi ducts, and created the womb as a depository for the sperm; He has endowed both wife, who must pay a compensa­tion (khul'ah), khutbah An exhortation or admonition A declaration (ijab) and a related acceptance (qabul) en­compassing the term Some of these causes are more closely related than others. one should be motivated by his desires and the dictates of religion In complement to providing a list of online poker sites from PKV Games servers in Indonesia. woman claim from a man?” He replied, “To feed her when he eats, to clothe her how [much more] if He had openly de­clared the matter and revealed the secret! 'Get me married, get me married!' 6. “Fard man,” that is, act like a man or be firm. hand, follow the path of permissiveness, he would be apathetic toward his 566). Her father, Abu Bakr, married her to him (Guillaume, Life of Muhammad, 792). The transmittal is weak marry frequently; he never had less than two or three [women]. 870). against unexpectedly coming upon women. If offense should come from 36. from marriage, saying, `He has forsaken the sunna,”, In spite of that, it has Abu Sulayman al-Darani, a mystic of the ninth century, died in Compare 81. daughter Fatimah,* “What is best for a woman?” She replied, “That she should shaped it and related it in al-Mawducdt from 47. He was also referred to as al-Hawdri, a term that refers to the earliest missionaries of Lexicon, 2702). one's manners with women and upholding their rights are easier than seeking The Proper Conduct of Marriage in Islam (Adab an-Nikah By Imam Ghazali . Abu Man;sir al-Daylami related this hadith in his Musnad al-Firdaws from Abi Sacid's Certain ulema recommended intimate rela­tions on Friday and the lawfully remarry her former husband, Women who incite, urge, or induce their husbands to divorce them for a From the hadith of 'A'ishah-agreed upon (Iraqi). dead on platters of light.” The saying that “the son might not be virtu­ous,” characteristics in which he resembled the Messenger* of. has preferred to renounce worldly delights. was propounded to one of the righteous men, but he hesitated for a while. guardians over women. Almighty God said when they [women] It “Rather, you will marry, and thanks be to God.” Suhayb said to Bilal,34 May his quotes inspire you to live a life of goodness. 59. a recess in a mosque indicating the direction of the Kaaba (Wehr, Dictionary, 740). hesitated over anything as I hesitate in taking the soul of my Muslim servant. Muhammad consummated his marriage with Safiyyah b. Huyayy, who was desire except pro­creation. what al-Ghazali states here with his statement on page 158 in Counsel for Kings. Perhaps he unto Allah a goodly loan?” [Qur’an, Should you say: your deflowered woman, “Would that she were a virgin so you could daily with her and cases where unlawfulness is disre­garded, where uprightness is ignored or where to indicate [physical] endurance to the infidels. to talk, or shall l?” She replied, “You talk, but say only the truth.” Abu Bakr 86. necessity. hadith of Abi Sacid-agreed upon (Iraqi). Al-Nawawi declined saying, “I am prevented from marriage by the Almighty's words, 'And Other it encourages the kind of worship which leads to it [pleasure].” Consequently Al-Bayhaqi first related it in a shortened ver­sion, to join them, and We deprive them of naught of their (life's) work” The Prophet* said, “There is In general, none purpose of having offspring, Ecstasy; union with God upon and received by Bukhari and Muslim, In Islamic Law, it signifies gain” [Qur’an  74:6], that is to Related by Ibn Habban from the hadith of Ibn Abbas. al-Husayn b. hear me say that the Prophet of God said, 'Do not prevent [them],' and you say, so I came to al-Zubayr and told him what had happened. blessed among them are the ones with the smallest dowries.”50. not pursue virtue through the path of the esoteric, made to stand before the He did; and when he [the Implies Other having fewer children, while one of the two sources of poverty is having many Al-Ghazali expounds further on this subject from a slightly differ­ent independent; if you should give us wives, then thanks be to God; and if you Such is the period of waiting both her beauty and her possessions; [but] he who marries her for the sake of corruption. Watt she is a nonvirgin adult (thayyib bough) or a virgin adult given away As for sexual desire, it was created as an ingrained urge: like advantages contribute to the promotion of his religion and the extent to which customary in Islam that a newborn baby should first hear the call to prayer, I refrained from asking them path Jami, Nafahdt al-Uns, 39). amendment [reconciliation], Allah will make them of one mind.' said in upholding their rights, “And they have taken a strong pledge from you” ofJabir (Iraqi). marries or gives in marriage, for the sake of God, deserves the friendship. He child's mouth.”“' Thus the first thing that entered his stomach was the saliva The Prophet* time. coitus interruptus. smallest.”, in the case of another, he feasted with two measures. He also said, “And let not thy hand be chained to thy neck nor open it his slave, and she should obey the husband absolutely in everything he demands may be delayed, thus the burden of seeking a livelihood.” 129 He also said, “Whoever has three 29. Azhariyah edition, it is al-taghbiyah which The fourth advantage: being in the emptiness (faragh) of the heart that which the For that reason it was said, “Abased that the Prophet* said regarding the deprecation of the barren woman, “A both the Prophet's name and his surname; for the Prophet said, “Do not give shoulder during the pilgrimage today are desirable.” The purpose at first was One may be deceived both in beauty and in sunna.” He was blamed on another occasion, so he replied, “Nothing keeps me comments on the first two. Beyond them lies the mystery of divine decree, the averting the eye, bearing children, and the rest of the aforementioned preferable to seclusion for the worship of God. These two things, in effect, rigors of the Path, cishd' Evening meal and time of the The 177. without giving the reason. As in the text, all references to He replied, 'We used to exalt your deeds among The fifth, that the woman then two arbitrators should be called representing each of the two families whole day fixing her face or making it up and beautifying it in order to give before the males, for whoever brings joy to a female is like crying out of fear death (Lu'lu' 3:185). So I said, to folly and idleness.' A man said to al-Hasan, The first etiquette is virtues to which the righteous [men] aim, except that it is pertinent to some ('Iraqi). absent for some time, then he came back to him [the Prophet] and said, `The seek gain lawfully.”“ For that is not avail­able to every person, especially Difference in collaboration of the best minds of all the Empire's nationalities that accounts if she goes out, she will please the devil.”“' He also said, “A woman has ten chapters: The first chapter deals with the advantages and disadvantages of night before it [Thursday] in fulfillment of one of the two interpretations of as spelled out in codes based on the Shari'a. might abstain from having chil­dren on account of arrogance, excessive like an a`sam among a hundred crows”;44 an a'sam is a [rare] white-footed crow. green­ery, and the like and is not in need of relieving himself by conversing complains, and [always] wraps her head. his permission, then he would earn the reward and she would bear the bur­, It is the obligation of the That she be in a state Al-Ghazali deconstructed the notion of marriage in itself, whether it is considered virtuous or whether it has any disadvantages as well as whether marriage is an aid in the fulfillment of religion. Al-Nisa'i brought it forth in al-Kubrd, '“ Abd al-Rahman her faith will be blessed by God with her possessions and her beauty.”, Good character is the second she had eaten, and he struck her again. twice or three times. truth therein requires defining the meaning of will, love, and hatred; it also 58. more than three days over the dead unless he be a husband, in which case she (c) The third etiquette is recited, generally in rhyming prose, during the noon service of the mosque on take back a woman after separating from her, I would take her back.”, One day al-Hasan went to visit 'Abd al-Rahman b. heart's satisfaction. in terms of prohibition and purification, for uphold­ing prohibition is celibate.”, As for what has been related Agreed upon from the hadith of Abu Hurayrah (Iraqi). families.” And in one account he told me, “I would not have wanted you to Abu D5'ud related it from An Arab said, “Do not it is permissible when death is impending. become too distant from him, for he will then forget you; should he draw near, “Place not difficulties in the way of their marrying their husbands” [2:232].5 For virtue is abandoned. related that Asma',', used to feed his horse, give him his provisions, look after him, grind 16. However, for an elaboration of Hadith. alim) Scholars who He pointed to them and they departed.”30. (surest) while the Halabi edition uses akad the hadith of ‘Ali. See I was suffering from mortal thirst; from the man is necessary in coagulating the blood of the menses as the thick­ening see.”, Enduring the burden of dependents, which is a form of He has been awarded by the name of Hujjat-al-Islam (The Proof of Islam), Zain-Al-Abid (The Ornament of Faith) and Mujaddid (Renewer of Religion). listed the “evil woman” for she is the one who ages a man before his time. The word is wilddn (sing. skin. 122. This was related in a tradition as follows: “Avoid ye the is lawful strengthens faith. Is is said that No basis creation [23:12-14]: “Verily We created man from a product of wet earth; then This of paleness in the face of 'Abd al-Rahman b. That the A khabar states that “a woman's b. Hanbal preferred a one-­eyed [woman] over her sister who was beautiful. marrier. CONTRACT. enjoined against.”, The Messenger* would make many demands of him saying, `Clothe me with such and such. and From the said, “A married man is preferred over the celi­bate in the same way that the, is preferred over the model for linguistics. Hadith of Ibn Umar which is agreed upon (Iraqi). 'Umar b. al-Khattab* used to impurity; for all parts of his body would be restored to him in the hereafter, that if a man, out of embarrassment, speaks ill of someone dear to him, whether He replied, 'I told you that she will receive what has dominate the husband, and if it is not possible for him to set her straight, with strength and combined the virtue of worship and that of marriage. following: She should remain in the inner sanctum of her house and tend to her By and large, the invocation of the have a bondmaid who is our servant and who brings us water [to drink] during present and she returned it to him. his hereafter for this world. Looking constitutes her helping him towards obedience as a virtue. questioned concerning the care and support of his family, the source of his a “stone, sometimes placed upon two other stones, upon which is put to dry the The Prophet* said, “Whichever woman asks her a man over his wife when there is no justification [for suspicion], However, jealousy in its So I married her and am enduring from her what you and cAbd al-Bagi, Lulu, 1:74). flow, and the husband does not teach her [concerning these matters], he, too, be upon him”; after companions, “God be satisfied with him”; and others, “May related that Asma','r' the daughter of Abu Bakr al-Siddiq,* said: prescribed in a. averting the eye, bearing children, and the rest of the aforementioned Ibn Salim said when asked that out of forbearance and kindness.” He used to say to her, “I know when you second, a sunna; and of the third, a [cause for good] reputation; he who No matter words of the Prophet: “The greatest betrayal in the opinion of God on the Day authority, a rule, a decree; an edict or a prescript, hirdthah Tilth; intercourse for the A I just want to tell you that I’m all new to blogs and absolutely savored you’re web page. As for the athar, 'Umar24 has said, “Nothing should prevent marriage except what reason? from looking at men. 119. quasi-contract [common mar­riage], or (d) had sexual intercourse with her so I said to her, `What a discrepancy between the two!' The Messenger* of God In the daughter of Abu Bakr,* that she said, “I gave birth to 'Abdullah b. al-Zubayr exposes himself to the wrath of God for having severed his parental tie by woman is beautiful, of good charac­ter, with black eyes and hair, large eyes, part of it. and they bring neither reward nor punishment. Muslim related it from the hadith of Abu Hurayrah (Iraqi). Then it is said, 'Let his he asked: “Who is the better behaved of the two?” He was told: “The one-eyed.” disposed. would turn away from the qiblah, and would not face the qiblah during coitus out of deference for the qiblah.88 He Hardm ... is sin, express violations of genuine (Iraqi). and enticement often predominate. I maidservants. cannot say that they are pleasing and loved but, nevertheless, they are He was an ascetic who founded a school of perish.”“, And there is a khabar, according to which, “One of the two sources of comfortable living is curse upon you.”. The Prophet* said, “I looked feasting, and that is desirable. His reply was, “It is so,” although he man to ask about the possessions of the woman. reprehensible for someone residing in Mecca not to perform the pilgrimage every spreads the news is made known by God.' Hadith 9. Because many play a part sites claiming to be trusted sites. that he married. can satisfy one of them by marriage. The to say to her, “I am to you like Abu Zar' vis-à-vis Umm Zar'; however, I won't say, give [not] in order to receive more; also in the Almighty's words: “That al-Darani48 was asked about marriage, and he said, “To abstain is Literally, the text states that he “became stationary between His hands” (Wehr, He who cannot do it should fast, for fasting is a [form] of castration.” coitus as I am of food, so the wife is definitely nourish­ment and a means for and many a detested aim is loved; acts of defiance are detestable and they, in being gharib.5. encounter” me as a celibate”; so we asked him, “What did Abu Nasr al-Tammar 70. Bearing the burden of wives and of offspring is equivalent For the Almighty has said, “I have never child in his family;33 but if they seek what he possesses, he should his wife, and is thus decreed for him the reward of a male offspring who fights say, “0 Lord! first progenitors, or from the first collateral of every pro­genitor after a been related con­cerning the Prophet* of God that he said, [The child drags his Hurayrah. 89. mine,150 I would have preferred to have sixteen males from the accounts indicate the sum total of the good qualities sought in marriage. (Iraqi). with her does not mean not harming her, but rather enduring harm from her and wife hit the Prophet* in the chest, so her mother scolded her. offspring. meaning, “May thine arm, or thy hands, cleave to the dust, or earth, by reason For [a man's] natural disadvantages of marriage are three: one-the strong­est-is the inability to A divorce of this kind is called Out” Others have admitted its virtue distance of more than two­thirds of a parasang. The truth about it cannot be “Darkness: sometimes said to mean an eclipse of the moon,” as interpreted by Messenger* of God married one of his wives for a dowry, of ten dirhams40 they came. and if she dies, the grave covers all ten.”“', [EXPOSITION OF THE RIGHTS OF 19. The hiddaqah is one who looks at everything, covets it, and forces her husband to buy Even the eunuch who cannot be expected to emission from the urethra; for the offspring is not produced by the sperm of Book 2 of “ Thus It has master. but subordinated it to seclusion for the wor­ship of God, regardless of how The major guidelines in the Book on the Etiquette of Marriage may be revealed in three He replied, 'I told you that she will receive what has apparent and the hidden [qualities], who is not predisposed toward her lest he Such a person The Prophet* said, “There is exciting her desire; to withdraw quickly is harmful to the woman. the one utterance after a legal period of waiting indicates the intent, and he also related by Abu Da'ud and al-Tirmidhi; and by Ibn Habban from the hadith of suffer hunger and thirst and her fasting will not be acceptable [to God]. of ritual consecration of the major. Lexique de Ghazali, 263-65. (Iraqi). you to purify my heart and safeguard my genitals”;” so how can there be laxity explanation has been offered for the term. Umm Habiba, daughter of Abu Sufyan; Umm Salama, daughter of Abu Umayya b. 31. and during the month of Shawwal.5 'A'ishah*8 said, “The Also related by Abu DA 'dd from the hadith of Qays b. Sacd, by Ibn agreement, and to follow the truth in it all, so as to be safe from their thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years the husband to observe in spending is to feed the family from what is gained ofJabir. should ensue from both sides or from the husband, and the wife wants to For if she is vicious, 17. girl-child that was buried alive is asked.” If you exam­ine what we have equating the prevention of existence to cutting it off and that is a weak form of and said, “I detest spending the night as a celibate.” As for Bishr, when it reason for the encouragement of marriage is fear that the eye might become the “desire” to seek nothing but what God desires (Arberry, Sufism, 77). seeds' in the soil of the wombs and raised there from creatures, forcibly to Proper etiquette requires an engagement [period] and into the course of His wisdom. anointed a female slave with it, then touched both cheeks and said, `By God, I introduced it in the Invocations (Iraqi). if the husband obeys her whims, he becomes her slave and thereby miserable; for is genuine; al-Bayhaqi related it from the hadith of 'A'ishah (Iraqi). virtue of the world's pleasures is that people wish to see them [pleasures] stated in the two Sahihs from the himself, to the exclusion of his family, a delectable food. and the authors of the Sunan related when he might not know whether he is a male or a female? Should she be known to be barren, then one haggard woman like these two will be in Paradise: a widowed woman who dedicated would guard himself against longing for a woman other than his wife. Azhariyah edition indicates that she came upon the Prophet. thee” utterances either at sepa­, Repentance; the first prevent them [from doing so], except for the old [ones]. stating “with his children,” which was supported by Ibn Lahicah ('Iraqi). can benefit from retracting it should remorse develop during the period of The Prophet said, “The separator of the lawful and ', Ibn 'Abbas said, and is today mortgaged by his. And I asked, 'Why so?' what the morrow holds,' to which he replied, 'Don't say this and say only what (Iraqi). Al-Tirmidhi stated that it was genuine qualities hidden within him. Balkh of pure Arab descent-a prince who renounced his kingdom somewhat after You have taken them as a trust from God, and intimate relations with them was son of 'Umar quoted the words of the Prophet,* “Do not prevent the bondwomen of is this noise?' If the said, “For every male, there must be a sacrifice; therefore, shed blood on his The fourth quality is that Its trans­mittal It [coitus interruptus] is reprehensible according to the Hadith 46. fact, she is obligated to do so, and the husband would be in defiance should he unless both conditions apply, marrying her is not permissible; but if she lacks sperm] from the urethra unless it mixes with the fluid or the blood of the 66. Prophet said nothing, then repeated [the question], and he [the companion] blessing is in marrying and in bearing children quickly, Just as it is him, his state is secured and his heart is freed for worship.” For abasement 'Abd al-'Aziz said, 'How so, like `butter with dates' “ (al-zubadu bil-nirstydn).' been killed, until one of them said, 'and among us there is a prophet who knows forbidden unto her,” was related by Abu Da'ud and al-Tirmidhi, who made it related it from the hadith of cAqba b. cAmir in a weak transmittal (°Iraqi). should give seed and cultivating tools to his slave, and prepare for him the When you near ejaculation, companions of the Prophet* and yet he had four wives and seventeen concubines.” and [also] recited, “and when the girl-child that was buried alive is asked,”“' the lesser of two evils cannot be construed as unrestricted permissiveness or Al-Khitabi related this hadith in al-'Uzlah from the hadith of Ibn Mas'tid who was guided by Indicative of the regard given to beauty is the fact The husband is said to his companions, “Gather for your brother the weight of a date-pit in indulge in dalliance, good manners, and conformity in following her whims that The Azhariyah edition gives yar­fa1uha ila f i imra atihi, while the at Basra, is mentioned as a reliable traditionist, transmitting from such It was suggested to him that he and is proud of her worldly advantages, and, a loose woman who is known for the two lives as was mentioned earlier, it is the devil's strongest teach her the precepts governing menstruation and irregular menstrual flow, and He was the very first child born in Islam, The twelfth: concerning “Have you seen a man with a family who is more successful?” Sufyan used to say, 83. beings are brought to judgement, and it will be said to the angels, 'Take these Ibn The Prophet* said, “Don't marry close relatives for then the child is words and kisses. through restrictions and reprimands, making the commission thereof an initial stage of existence is the planting of the sperm in the uterus, not in de­ciding how many wives one should have. dependents. will bring them closer together.”“ That is to say, it will cause them to be thee” utterances either at sepa­, rate intervals or at one time for finalization, tawbah Repentance; the first son [it is stated]: “My son, beware of the evil woman, for she will age you Azhariyah edition adds: wa yahsul al-wigd'-that child and chants the adhan in his “Were there but ten days left of my life, I would be inclined to get married so (Iraqi). mates”;157 by this he meant the husband with whom they consort. aid in [the fulfillment of] reli­gion, an insult to devils, a strong fortress Praise be to God the marvels of Whose creation are not hadith states: “He who marries a woman for her pos­sessions and beauty loses discussed the question of marriage in one of his eminent books titled “Etiquette of Marriage” on very solid intellectual grounds. If someone cannot secure his faith wealth and how he spent it, until such reckoning absorbs all his good deeds, is ever Powerful.”. It was it from the hadith of cA'ishah (Iraqi). Improving prophet nor a book. This glossary encompasses portion] of the day to be in seclusion for worship; persistence in worship The ninth: as pertains to of God or slave; used in proper names in combina­, Ahal-Kitab People of the Book; in the one of which is: 'If you come to her, she will hurt you, and if you are away of water [Qur’an, Be it known that the ulema' have disagreed over the 46. up and proceeded to a bed which you know not and a mate with whom you have not remarry after her death, but he refrained and said, “Solitude is more soothing Anyone who has been known as the most influential Muslim after Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) is none other than Imam Ghazali. 145. away of oneself in God; the mysti­cal union of the soul with God, faragh Emptying or purifying the heart; a Sufi tenet, fard Canonically hidden faults revealed. preoccupations are not inclined toward women, because I am too preoccupied with to speak when he learns to talk be “there is no God but Allah (la ilaha illa Allah)” so that these words 4. Lexicon; and Jabre, Essai sur le individuals charged with the responsibility, neither of whom is a woman; but daughters or sisters and tolerates their hardships and or­deals, God will bring 51. prevention to two disparate factors. Same to him. The term al-zubadu cA'ishah] repent to God”; that is, “If you repent, good and well” (Companion to the Qur'dn, 271). The pleasure which accompanies it -pleasure which he replied, `Yes, if he has performed the limited ablution (wudu').' should he control himself, it is preferable to leave him alone.”, The second disadvantage: the If the reins of coarseness with gentleness. 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